My Weekend
This weekend wasn't really that interesting i just did chores oh but i did do one fin thing i went to my friends house and it was really fun.
Monday, October 24, 2016
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
How to win friends and influence people
Rule 1: Become Genuinely Interested in other people.
1)'' do this and you will be welcome anywhere''
2)'' you can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you''
3)'' ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering''
when you talk to new people you have to try to make them feel like you want to talk to them if not the person isn't gonna wanna talk to you cause they're gonna feel like if you don't like them.
and don't be acting all nosy getting in their business by asking questions that would make them feel awkward. ask the questions they would like to answer.
Rule 2:
1)'' actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, '' i like you. you make me happy. i am glad to see you.''
2) '' you don't feel like smiling? then force yourself to smile.''
3) ''it creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the counter sign (witness and indication) of friends''
Rule 3: remember names
1) '' a mans name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language.''
2) '' if you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble''
what this means is that it is better for you if you are able to remember peoples names and all that. and how to remember names is easy just need to do something interesting so they catch your attention and you are able to remember and they are gonna like you more because you remember it
1)'' do this and you will be welcome anywhere''
2)'' you can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you''
3)'' ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering''
when you talk to new people you have to try to make them feel like you want to talk to them if not the person isn't gonna wanna talk to you cause they're gonna feel like if you don't like them.
and don't be acting all nosy getting in their business by asking questions that would make them feel awkward. ask the questions they would like to answer.
Rule 2:
1)'' actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, '' i like you. you make me happy. i am glad to see you.''
2) '' you don't feel like smiling? then force yourself to smile.''
3) ''it creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the counter sign (witness and indication) of friends''
Rule 3: remember names
1) '' a mans name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language.''
2) '' if you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble''
what this means is that it is better for you if you are able to remember peoples names and all that. and how to remember names is easy just need to do something interesting so they catch your attention and you are able to remember and they are gonna like you more because you remember it
Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
1) " If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."
2)
"Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more
interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you
and your problems.
Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."Rule 6: Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.
"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey)"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
what this quote means is to be nice to other people treat them good make them feel like you want them to be your friend
Final Reflection: Write an overall final reflection in this post regarding the "Six Ways to Make People Like You". Include your deepest thoughts and feelings. Write what you commit to do to apply the Six Rules.
i think these six ways are very useful because they work i tried it. i made a few friends using these rules. they really come in handy.
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